Like I promised, I'll be sharing what kind of material I owned.
You will be quite surprised by the amount that I had and the amount of knowledge that went into my head. A lot of the knowledge was just a waste, so here we go:

1. Mystery - All videos + all books
2. Neil Strauss/Style - All videos + all books
3. Lance Mason/Pickup101 - Most videos + majority of the books
4. Ross Jeffries - Most videos
5. David DeAngelo - All videos + all books + majority of the books he recommended
6. Richard La Ruina/PUATraining - All videos + majority of the books
7. Sean Messenger/X-Pickup101 Coach - Audios
8. BadBoy - Almost all videos
9. NLP Books + NLP Videos
10. General Dating Books by many other authors
11. Other Dating videos by many other authors

That's just a basic idea of how much stuff I had and how much knowledge went into my head.
You see, my problem was that I was reading/watching/listening too much and that made me get stuck.

I was going out every weekend practising different kind of techniques taught by those guys, but I wasn't getting much result to be honest with you. I could see that guys who never read this stuff or got into it were getting better results by doing normal basic stuff.

Of course, they have some very valid points in their teachings that will help you, but a lot of it is actually useless and a lot of the claims they make are plain BULLSHIT. Am saying this, because I have been putting their techniques in the field for few years now, am not saying this just like that.

You want a basic example of a BULLSHIT that everyone of those guys use? Here is what they all say:
- By learning my/our technique you will get EVERY GIRL you want/wanted!! I say: BULLSHIT, that is IMPOSSIBLE :)

Like I said earlier, am STUCK now and because am STUCK I promised myself that I will delete all those things (which I did already) and try to find myself again.

At the moment, I am lost and I really need some time to get my balance back and be really ME.
This is the second promise that I did to myself:
- No Clubbing until I find my balance, find myself and be true/genuine to myself. I must become original.

Taking a break until you find yourself again is very important in my opinion, because then you will be very connected and right now as I said am LOST and STUCK.

Am thinking of travelling to somewhere outside Finland to an Island where the weather is nice and full beaches just to relax and try to get in touch with myself. I really need that.

I will let you know once am out of this situation and let you know once am back to Night life.

- Helsinki Player

G'day Mates! Hope you doing well?!!

Let's talk about what has happend for the last few weeks. I will show them as points:

1. I attended the seminar that I talked about, which was in London.
2. That seminar had some effect on me and it somehow changed the way I think and behave
3. I've been partying a lot as usual
4. Best place to party in the summar in my opinion: Kaivohuone! Why? All the hot chics go there and you should go there too
5. AGAIN, I've been disappointed about the results but not as disappointed as before
6. I've met one guy who is a LIVE example of picking up girls. I'll have a talk with him and find about his secret. He is a tourist here. As soon as he arrived he started to party. So far he partied three times and out of those three times, guess what? He got TWO girls!! Now that's a good average isn't it? :)

Finally, I did a few actions and promises to myself that might shock some of you out there:

1. I have DELETED ALL Pick-Up Books, Videos, PDF's etc..that I have
2. I will STOP downloading/buying/reading such material from now on
3. FUCK Theory and let's get PRACTICAL! 
4. From now on I just: PRACTISE! PRACTISE! PRACTISE!

For the curious people out there, in the next post I'll tell you what kind of material I have deleted.

Let's get some Hot Chics now!

Hiya mates! Been really some time that I haven't updated you guys.

Will start writing the latest adventures/conclusions that has happend for the past month or few months.

Until tomorrow, it's good night!

- Helsinki Player

PS: Thanks to those who sent me e-mails and reminded me about some things :)

Okay mates, as mentioned in my previous post, I went out alone on Sunday for the first time in my life.

I entered the club and didn't feel comfortable at all (first time). I went to order some drink (non alcoholic).
After ordering, I went for a walk around the club just to check what's going on and if there are any hot chics around.

After the walk, I decided to stay next to one of the bars where you can see the dance floor as well.
I was having a lot of eye contact from the girls although the place wasn't that full since it was Sunday. There was this fucking hot chic who was most probably half Finnish and half latino I would guess. Oh my! What a body! Every fucking guy was looking at her. She was looking at me so many times, but wasn't sure whether to make a move or not coz she was with a bunch of four girls. I didn't take the risk although she gave a lot of signs...next time baby next time :).

On my right hand side, there were two girls who were just sitting and chatting. I could see that both were running out of things to say. I wasn't sure if I should make a move or not, but I was like COME ON MAAAAAN, you gotta make a FUCKING move. Move your fucking ASS, you gotta socialize!!

It took me some time, but then I went ;). I opened the girl who was next to me asking her on why its empty today (as if I don't know :D). Conversation started...she was quite friendly and then I used the Canada thingy again haha :D. I was just talking absolutely Non SENSE like:
- In Canada we have big parties on Sunday, its never empty like this. We love partying on Sunday bla bla
- I asked if there are any good clubs around etc...

Anyways, after a while I got introduced to her friend a cute blondy whom I thought was a Finn but she was half swedish and half something else. This blondy kind of got the lead and the girl whom I talked with at the beginning felt left out and she was trying to get my attention back :D:D. Its funny how they get jealous easily.
I talked with them for about 20-30 minutes, which is quite good in my opinion. I wanted to end it right there so I asked them about their names before leaving them. The blondy had a funny name and I teased her by saying: your name sounds like a black girls name haha. She started laughing hard and hit me saying SCREW YOU :D:D.

I went for a walk around the club again and ordered water from the bar.  After 10 mins, I went back and they were still there, so I just said oooh you are still here?!! Then I went far away from them on the other side, so that they don't think am a stalker. They were looking every now and then, but I was just dancing and pretended that I didn't notice them looking at me.

After about 15 minutes YOU WON'T BELEIVE WHAT HAPPEND!!
The blond girl came directly to me asking: Did you come out alone?
To be honest with you guys, I was a bit shocked but thankfully I managed it. I told her yes, am alone. My colleagues are all engaged, married bla bla and I love to party so yes I came out alone.
She was like, why don't you join me and my friend. You can come and sit with us.....I was like aaaaaa, alright (still in shock :D). Apparently her friend to whom I talked to at the beginning has left already, so she introduce me to another friend of hers who was a good looking asian. Small and cute :).

I intorudced myself to the asian and started to talk a lot with her to make the blond one jealous ;). When I did that, the blond started to ask more questions. What do you do? Where are you originally from? bla bla bla

After some time, they said that they are going to the bathroom and that they will come back. I was like damnn, maybe I lost it and they will never come back. However, they really did come back and sat with me. I left a good impression it seems, so AWESOME they are back :).

All of a sudden, the asian chic asked me: Do you want to dance?
Me: I was like aaa yeah, if its a good song then why not ( Man, they shocked me again here :D:D)
Asian chic: Why don't you go and dance with her (she was pointing to the blond girl)
Me: I was thinking hmmmmm, is this a sign that the blond girl really likes me. She asked this asian chic to ask me for a dance with her (obviously she is shy which is normal). So then I told the blond, how about if we dance? She was like yeah, I don't mind so I took her to the dance floor.

She was really shy, so she asked her asian friend to come and join us. I could see that she is very interested but not so ready, so I took it easy with her.


There were just so many guys trying on these two girls maaaaaaan, you can't imagine. That was a good opportunity for me to show them the protector role. One guy came straight to the blond, so I grabbed her and moved her to the other hand and kept on dancing. She really liked my move and the Asian chic was like oooo nice one. I told the Asian one, if someone is annoying you just let me know ;). I'll send you the bill later haha :D:D.

Anyways, we moved from one side of the dance floor to the other one. When doing that, one guy out of no where came to the blond and told her to join their table. Their table was FULL of drinks with three men and the blond one said heii, am gonna join them to get some drinks and I'll be back haha :D. Very typical, girls will suck you up and then give you nothing. I told her to grab two more drinks, one for me and for the asian and she was laughing :D:D. I was dancing with the Asian chatting with her and joking about drinks. Unexpectedly, the Asian chic goes to the table giving them a very nice smile and asking: Can I have a drink? They said yeah sure.

She brought the fucking drink for me and said this is yours! I said, no thanks its okay, you can have it yourself. She said really this is for you, am driving. I had my back at the guys, but the Asian chic was saying that they are looking at me in a very angry way coz she stole the drink and gave it to me HAHAHA. I couldn't stop laughing :D:D.

To make the story short, they asked for my Facebook about 10 times! Both of them.
I ended up with the blondy and had a great night ;);)

I gave them my Facebook also and I have them as friends now.

Mates! I fucking FELT like a PLAYER that night!! I couldn't be happier and had to skip work on Monday :). It just went sooooo smoothly that night! HURRAAAY!!

Hello mates!

Last Sunday I went out alone for the first time in my life. I am someone who hates doing stuff alone, but this time I had to. All the people I knew didn't wanna go out coz they are working on Monday. Losers :).

On the other hand, I learnt from life and experience that if you want to grow you have do the things on your own. Your friends will always try to drag you back, because they can see that you are growing and are kind of jealous of that. I've been there many times and once you leave them behind and make a move, they will come back to you and ask heiiii, how did you do it man? Very typical :).

Anyways, back to going out alone adventure. There are goods and bads as usual.
The only bad side that I found was the fact that you are alone. You don't have anyone to talk to. If you don't feel comfortable then it is very visible.

However, I saw many positive things here. I noticed that when you are alone, girls somehow pay more attention to you. Not sure exactly why, but I think that they find it somehow attractive that a guy has the ball to go out alone and enjoy the night. It can be very unattractive if you are closed and not having fun, so avoid it. Also, just like us men when we see a girl alone, we usually try to go and talk to her coz she is alone. It is kind of easier, so I think girls think the same way here. THey are like ooooo we have a target there :D:D.

The most positive thing for me is the amount of pressure you have on yourself. I am someone who does his best when I have enough pressure on myself and gotta tell you that going out alone is definitely something that generates it. By that I mean the fact that you are standing there alone with no one to talk to, you keep on telling yourself COME ON MAAAAAN, you gotta do something. You are kind of forced to socialize and make a move.

When you are out with your friends, it is totally different. You find all kind of excuses not to make a move, but when you are alone you are ALONE maaaaaan. You gotta move your fucking balls coz NO BODY else will move them for you. Either do something or go fucking home. Simple.

That being said, I am definitely going to increase the amount of times am going out on my own. Like I said, I need pressure and that works for me so well. Moreover, I think this is one the most important things that a lot of trainers say: Work the room. Work the room. Work the room.

I couldn't really understand what they mean until I went out alone. You really gotta talk to everyone and socialize. Its not just about women, you have to go out there to meet new people and have fun. By meeting new people, you will definitely meet women as well.

I will tell you about my adventure in the next post.

No huhuh! Finally, it took me some time to update the layout of my blog.

Am glad that am done with it although I lost the polls.

What do you think mates? You like it? :)

Hiya mates!

Lately, I've been receiving a few e-mails from some of you asking about two main things:

1. Who am I? In other words, did I attend/read/watched any trainings before reaching this stage etc..?
2. Which training am I going to this June?

For question 1, I have to write it for you gentlemen later at some point.

About question 2, as I mentioned in the earlier post I received 12 DVD's. Now I am done with those and honestly I liked their material. They just think totally different than the rest.

I bought it coz I thought it was a really good deal. You get the DVD's + attend three trainings for free and if you can't attend the training then they will send you the DVD's home so that you don't miss anything. All that was for only 220€, which like I said sounded as a good deal to me.

The training itself is held by someone called Gambler a.k.a Richard La Ruina.
All trainings will be in London and the first one will be on June (whole weekend) where they try to remove all the negative thoughts from your mind and in the coming trainings they will take you step by step to mastery hopefully :).

I really had to buy it and I need to attend this training coz I feel that I really need some help. Some real face to face training and you will understand why once I give more information about myself.

Don't know where am going to tonight but am definitely gonna party like always ;).

Cheers!

Hiya Mates! Am back now :).

Tonight, we watched Ice Hockey (Russia won in the last minutes) + Champions League (Inter won giving no chance to Bayern) games and after that we hit the club.

We went to Cuba, but to be honest with you I wasn't in the mood AT ALL.
I guess its because I haven't been clubbing like really clubbing lately, that could be the reason.

Moreover, I gotta be honest with you guys...am just so DOWN nowadays. I just have sooo many negative thoughts on my mind and am not sure how I can get rid of them.

For example:
- Whenever I see an UGLY guy getting a nice chic by doing nothing, while I much better looking than him can't just score.

I mean I get depressed totally in the nightclub and I just loose the mood totally. I know that to fix this, you have to change the way to something positive like saying the following to yourself:
- Hei man, if an UGLY guy can make it, why can't you? Right?

Don't know why but am just sooo disappointed right now, because I've seen this happening many times :'(.

I mean, am a very successful guy in almost all areas of my life but not this one. It so fucking hurts......DAMN :'(

Sometimes, I have a feeling that girls will be much harder on you if you are handsome or good looking. What do you think guys? Have u faced this before?

Meanwhile, I want to give you some news about some training. I recently bought some DVD's and am going to attend some training in London in June. Am quite excited about it and really hope that it will somehow help me. The DVD's are a lot, there are about 12 of them and I finished 7. Of course I didn't watch all the 7 in one day, but rather watching one DVD every other day or two days. I have to say that it is quite good so far and kind of suits my style.

Alrighty mates, gotta go to sleep now. Keep it up ;)

Kippis!

G'day Mates!

I'll be gone on a Business Trip for a few weeks. I'll start updating once am back.
Until then, take care and try to get as many girl as you can :)

Cheers!

Morientes!

It has been on my mind for a while, but wanted to share it with you now.
I found a website, where you can see photos from some of the night clubs.

Due to that, I thought of sharing the photos of the girls that I've been talking to if their photos is available on that site.

This will give you a better idea on my sarging and you will probably start to know what I mean by HOT :).
Everyone has a different taste, but I think that you will like my taste ;)

By the way, am not one of those who can go with anything.
The girl has to be good looking otherwise no can do!

Keep it up!

Damn, been just too busy with work and I couldn't keep up.

Anyways, that same day on Saturday I acted as if I don't know Finnish and heard a hot chic saying Ihana something and she kept on saying Ihana like two times. I got a few eye contacts with her and guess what was my opening line?

I went to her and told her: Hei! What's the meaning of Ihana?
She: Why are you asking me and you are living here already? (she was mean)
Me: I told her hei! Am not from here and I just arrived yesterday. Besides, why are you so mean? U look so funny and...I went a few meters away and gave her that look saying: you are weird girl ;)
She: She came after me coz she didn't feel good for the fact that I lowered her value and on top left her. She came really close and said hei, you shouldn't come to Finland at a time like this. Everything is closed and you can't do much
Me: I told her hei, I don't wanna talk to you. Can you just go away and pushed her gently
She: She kept on coming back and this time she asked: where are you from?
Me: I was like alriiiiight, she is interested. The fish is in the basket haha :D. So then I said that am not from here.
She: Yeah I know, but where are you from?
Me: I was just confirming that she is interested ;). At the beginning I told u that I acted that am not from here, so I told her am from Canada.
She: You don't look Canadian at all, where are you originally from?
Me: I was like hold on a minute blondy (she was a hot blond btw), let me tell you about geography a little bit. You can never tell who is Canadian and who is not, because Canada is very multination and we have people from all over. Then I asked, where are you from?
She: I am from Lapland, but been living in Helsinki for the last three years
Me: ooooh, so you are from the village....now I know why you were doubting that am from Canadian. You are really a village girl and start laughing at her :D:D
She: She started to hit me playfull (getting more signs from her)

Its gonna be a long report if I write everything like that, but anyways she introduce me to her sister and her friend. I was flirting and joking with her friend and telling her to stay away all the time (teasing her).

Everything went so well UNTIL I saw her kissing with a guy after which I found that he was her boyfriend. I was like you can't be fucking serious!! I got everything right and at the end she is taken.........What a fucking luck maaaaaaaaan. DAAAAAAMN!

Sunday:
I can't write too much, but in short we went to Huuma and the place was just fucking packed. Lots of girls. I talked to a few girls and had a nice chat with one hot tall black haired girl, but didn't really take it to the end.

Until next week, it is Nähdään!

Alrighty, so pääsiäinen is behind and here I am writing the adventures that occured back then.
Am gonna write them briefly without much details.

Friday:
I went to Tiger on Friday and quite surprisingly there was enough people, didn't expect that on such a day.
I thought that the city will be dead and no body will be going out, but thankfully it turned otherwise.

As usual, lots of hot chics go to Tiger, so here is what happend:
I talked to three hot chics. One of them just made me laugh the whole night and am laughing now while writing it. She was with another hot friend and they had all the attention. They knew they were hot and they were just roaming around. I decided to talk to them. I just touched one of them on the shoulders and was about to open my mouth but guess what she did. She just shouted aaaaaaaa and went like one kilometer away haha. Guys, this was just hilarious, wish you were there. That same night I went to that girl on purpose and did exactly what she did. I just passed by and shouted really loud AAAAAAAH and ran away from them, guess what? The girl was shocked and confused and guess what? They were coming and dancing close to use all the time, but hei I said if she behaved like that I really don't give a shit about her. Period :D.

PS: When they were following us, I could hear them talking in Russian. Russians are nothing but show off people :)

Other girls I talked to, conversation went smoothly, but there is one BIG problem in Tiger. Girls come there just to show off and then go home and masturbate. They are there just to get attention and that's it. They are not fun at all. Why bother going there?

My friend got a hot russian, but she was just playing. He danced with her a lot, but then she went and danced with hundred other guys also. BITCHEEEEEES :D:D

Saturday:
We started from Aussie bar and I was quite surprised with the crowd and that the dance floor was packed. We stayed there for a one hour or two and left coz the place didn't have any hot chics or there was one or two but they were with boyfriends, so we said fuck it let's go to the next place.

Afterwards, we went to Cuba, which is one of the places I like coz the people are cool and easy going not like fake people in Tiger. Cuba wasn't that packed, but there were a few nice girls not that many. At the beginning two girls came to us by themselves smiling all the time, so I opened them right away. We had a normal conversation with them and one of them was just so ready. To be honest with you guys, I didn't like any of them because...read this carefully, BECAUSE I hated the perfume they are wearing....duuuuuude I felt like puking........I don't understand how some girls choose their perfume......It was a big turn OFF and I said No Way, am not gonna go with them.

I asked my friend if he wants the girl who was so ready and he was like yeah, I don't mind..I could go with her. I was like alright, am gonna bring her to you and you handle it from there. I grabbed the girl and told her heiiii, you should meet my friend and dance with him. She wasn't sure, but I told her come oooooon, just dance with him. I pushed her towards him and they got hooked ;). While they were dancing, I kept the other one busy by talking some bullshit with her so that my friend does his things in peace :). The friend was a blond one and later found out that she is engaged and that her boyfriend or whatever was there also, which was in a way good for my friend.

However, after all this my friend fucked it up and he lost her.......oooo man...what a tragedy...

To be continued....

Hei guys! How you doing?!! Hope its all good :)

Due to Easter, we now have Friday until Monday off which is GREAAAAAAAAT!!
I finally have few days to party and not only Saturdays and sometimes Fridays.

Plan is to party on Friday(just came back), Saturday and Sunday.
No breaks whatsoever! I'll party on all those days, ooooo yeah!

Since am gonna party three days in a row, I'll most probably write one post which will contain a report about all those days.

Am gonna do my best and hopefully I'll end up with some chic or chicS, ooo how about that? haha :D
Well, I hope I will at least kiss some hot chic :)
Fingers corssed! Wish me luck guys!! I really need it :D:D

Until Monday, wish you all a happy easter!
Hyvää Pääsiäistä!

PS: I was in Tiger today :P
Another PS:  I love House music and if you are someone who likes House also, then listen to the songs that are played. They are just AWESOME! And hei! there are some hot chics in the video, be careful okay :P
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2XUYBE9j57s

Alright guys, this saturday I went to Apollo again. There was a long queue, but thankfully it passed by quickly.
It wouldn't be nice to wait too much coz it was raining outside.

The place was PACKED with women and a lot of hot ones. There was about twice more women than men!
When I got in, I was like that's it! Tonight, something is going to happen.

For your information, average age there seemed like 30+. It means two things:
1. Women that are 30 or more have enough experience with men. You need to be sharp with a lot of skills.
2. It also means that they probably didn't have sex for a while so....they are desperate. Haha, can't beleive am writing this :D

So how did the night go? Beginning was great, was in a good mood with a friend of mine.
There was just A LOT of eye contact going on. We tried on a few girls just by dancing close without talking, but they escaped. Or let's say that the third girl was the one who screwed it. She was jealous I guess, coz we were dancing from behind with two ;).

I talked to two hot girls tonight and as usual the opening goes without any problem. You can call me opening master :D. In both cases, we kept on talking for few minutes, but THEN they just left. Problem is that, they are not asking anything back. It is like I am doing the work all the time and they are not helping at all.
For some reason, this is happening a lot with me. I know many guys out there, whenever they approach-> girls ask questions, interact and try to help by at least communicating, but not with me. No idea why, have to figure this out.

Actually, while I was writing this a quick solution came to my mind. Probably the reason is that am not asking open ended questions or starting with a story, which is important (it seems). Am asking questions that have a No or Yes answer. Hmmm..have to think more about this..

Anyways, end result unfortunately was Ei Mitään. Although, two girls were dancing for me, but stupid me...I just didn't grab them. Am just not used to grabbing a girl from behind, I have to work on this. They were ready maaaaaan. Damn it, have to improve.

Alrighty mates, that was it..am going to sleep now.


PS: Am not so pissed like the other day. Am in a okay mood today :)

Well well, the whole week I was soooo busy working. I had to work on Saturday also for about 12 hours......DAMN man.....I hate this.

I've a lot of work to do and that means I would have only one day to party, which is Saturday...that SUCKS totally!

On Saturday I slept only five hours and forced myself to go out anyways.

We went to Cuba, but the results were not so good. I didn't do anything coz I was just simply tired, didn't have the energy at all. Just wasn't in the mood much.

Unfortunately nothing for this weekend and that SUCKS! Can't wait for partying this week and make a revenge for last week :). Will try to balance work and socializing this week, otherwise tästä ei tuu mitään :)

I went to Onnela on Saturday and surprise surprise, there was a lot of hot chics there AGAIN :)

This time unfortunately I haven't done much, because I was with a big group of friends and didn't want to kind of fail infront of everybody and embarrass myself.

Therefore, I haven't done much. I just talked to two girls and that's it.

While being there, I was paying attention to how some of the guys get girls and somehow found out one of my weaknesses "hopefully".

I noticed that there are many guys out there, who don't even say a word or open their mouth. They just catch the girl from behind, start dancing with her and start kissing with her. I was like WHAT THE....?!!! Completely PUZZLED!! How is that possible?!!
To be honest that keeps on shocking me. I mean these guys don't say a FUCKING word and they get girls. Seemed very strange to me that it is working and then I figured that hei! probably my problem is that I am not aggressive enough.

By aggressive enough I mean that you have to just grab her like those men out there. Don't concentrate on opening much, because it really doesn't have much value! Sometimes opening a girl might actually decrease your chances of getting her. Sounds weird ha? In my opinion, it will decrease your chances, because she actually doesn't want to know you :D. She just wants a one night stand. You get it? Daaa, why did I miss this? :D:D

If you don't show her that you are a tiger who is looking for PUSSY, sorry I mean prey :P, then...your chances are quite low. Be brave Biatch! Be BRAVE!!

This will be one of the things I will try to improve this week, because I've seen this happening so many times infront of my eyes and it is sooo powerful...

Forget opening, just be wild like an animal!! :)

Alright, so here I am going partying on Friday and trying to get better again.

Target was of course to improve and work on the problems.

One of the biggest moves I had to do was to talk to girls and really keep the conversation going as much as I can. Unfortunately I failed to do that, because my brain is programmed to talk to a girl then take a pause and then go and engage her again.

I did talk to three hot girls, but the results were not so good and probably no one to blame but myself (I guess).

First hot girl I talked to came by herself next to me and sat down.
When she was next to me, I noticed that every person passing by looks at her as if she is some kind of work of art or let's put in better words: something that everybody wants :D.

I said to myself, fuck it let's talk to her. My opening was:
Me: Gosh! Don't you feel like a toy and uncomfortable since everybody is coming by giving you that look?
Girl1: Yeaaah, how did you notice that?
Me: Well, I noticed that every person that passes by looks towards, that's why
Girl1: That's true, they really annoy me sometimes

Gues what I did next? As usual I paused for few minutes leaving her without any conversation AND....She left......DAMN!!

Now let's move to the next girl. Before I do that, I have to say that she was just FUCKING hot, nice big boobs, awesome ass, really tanned, nice lips and I just loved her hairstyle (very special). Let's start:
Me: Watsup with your hair?
Girl2: She just smiled
Me: Who did that for you? Which barber in town?
Girl2: I did it by myself with a smile
Me: No FUCKING WAY! You fucking serious?
Girl2: Yeah! Really I did it by myself at home
Me: I can't beleive that! Am sure you are copying someone. Did you google it :D
Girl2: Smiling again! Nooo, it was really me who did it
Me: Well I still don't beleive you, but I really like it! Looks lovely!
Girl2: Thaanks :)

Guess what? Stupid me...I stepped away and stopped the conversation. I didn't keep the conversation for as long as I should AND....didn't do anything after that although she was few meters away. She kept on looking but since my fucking brain is still programmed to do that stuff I acted as if I don't notice her, ignored her and left it like that...

I talked to another girl also, but whatever. End result for tonight:
0 ZERO
Although there were so many hot chics tonight.....gotta improve really....

Gotta be honest with you, I was pissed at my results..so fucking pissed!!

Since coming back to Finland, all my openings have been very successful.
I wasn't rejected so far not even once, which is really great.

Problem at the moment is how to get the girl till the end.

Let's talk about the things am really good at it or things that have been going well:
- Almost all the time, I get smiles from many good looking girls
- Opening a girl is quite easy for me, I think I've mastered this part

Problems:
- After opening the girl, am kind of lost not sure what to do next. This is probably because I open a girl and then I leave her. Am not keeping the conversation going. This maybe makes her think that hmmm maybe he is not interested in me.
- Usually after leaving them, the girls come back to me dancing very close to me.
- Not sure what to do here, should I continue my small talk or should I grab her and dance with her? Usually I do small talk, pause, small talk, pause etc...maybe I should change this?

Two weeks ago, I got a girl by not much talking to her and really dancing nice with her ;).
Stupid me however, I didn't continue by kissing her but rather left her showing her that am not needy, but that ruined the whole thing coz she left later.....

This week - Saturday:
- I talked to many girls and as usual opening went smoothly
- There this blond who I've talked and she was happy and smiling most of the time
- Dancing and coming close all the time
- I just wanted to try one thing out by being nice to her and say: May I dance with you? I know it never works, but just wanted a proof. Guess what? Never use it, it doesn't work :D:D

This Week - Sunday:
- There was enough hot chics, but didn't do anything, which was a complete failure.
- Not sure why I didn't do anything, but I think the reason could be the amount of people. Very few people were there and I took it in a negative way rather than making a move right away.

Alrighty, i'll be posting all my adventures in Helsinki from now on.
Here is where you will see the game happening. Target is to improve and learn from mistakes!

More to come soon!