Alright guys, this saturday I went to Apollo again. There was a long queue, but thankfully it passed by quickly.
It wouldn't be nice to wait too much coz it was raining outside.

The place was PACKED with women and a lot of hot ones. There was about twice more women than men!
When I got in, I was like that's it! Tonight, something is going to happen.

For your information, average age there seemed like 30+. It means two things:
1. Women that are 30 or more have enough experience with men. You need to be sharp with a lot of skills.
2. It also means that they probably didn't have sex for a while so....they are desperate. Haha, can't beleive am writing this :D

So how did the night go? Beginning was great, was in a good mood with a friend of mine.
There was just A LOT of eye contact going on. We tried on a few girls just by dancing close without talking, but they escaped. Or let's say that the third girl was the one who screwed it. She was jealous I guess, coz we were dancing from behind with two ;).

I talked to two hot girls tonight and as usual the opening goes without any problem. You can call me opening master :D. In both cases, we kept on talking for few minutes, but THEN they just left. Problem is that, they are not asking anything back. It is like I am doing the work all the time and they are not helping at all.
For some reason, this is happening a lot with me. I know many guys out there, whenever they approach-> girls ask questions, interact and try to help by at least communicating, but not with me. No idea why, have to figure this out.

Actually, while I was writing this a quick solution came to my mind. Probably the reason is that am not asking open ended questions or starting with a story, which is important (it seems). Am asking questions that have a No or Yes answer. Hmmm..have to think more about this..

Anyways, end result unfortunately was Ei Mitään. Although, two girls were dancing for me, but stupid me...I just didn't grab them. Am just not used to grabbing a girl from behind, I have to work on this. They were ready maaaaaan. Damn it, have to improve.

Alrighty mates, that was it..am going to sleep now.


PS: Am not so pissed like the other day. Am in a okay mood today :)

Well well, the whole week I was soooo busy working. I had to work on Saturday also for about 12 hours......DAMN man.....I hate this.

I've a lot of work to do and that means I would have only one day to party, which is Saturday...that SUCKS totally!

On Saturday I slept only five hours and forced myself to go out anyways.

We went to Cuba, but the results were not so good. I didn't do anything coz I was just simply tired, didn't have the energy at all. Just wasn't in the mood much.

Unfortunately nothing for this weekend and that SUCKS! Can't wait for partying this week and make a revenge for last week :). Will try to balance work and socializing this week, otherwise tästä ei tuu mitään :)

I went to Onnela on Saturday and surprise surprise, there was a lot of hot chics there AGAIN :)

This time unfortunately I haven't done much, because I was with a big group of friends and didn't want to kind of fail infront of everybody and embarrass myself.

Therefore, I haven't done much. I just talked to two girls and that's it.

While being there, I was paying attention to how some of the guys get girls and somehow found out one of my weaknesses "hopefully".

I noticed that there are many guys out there, who don't even say a word or open their mouth. They just catch the girl from behind, start dancing with her and start kissing with her. I was like WHAT THE....?!!! Completely PUZZLED!! How is that possible?!!
To be honest that keeps on shocking me. I mean these guys don't say a FUCKING word and they get girls. Seemed very strange to me that it is working and then I figured that hei! probably my problem is that I am not aggressive enough.

By aggressive enough I mean that you have to just grab her like those men out there. Don't concentrate on opening much, because it really doesn't have much value! Sometimes opening a girl might actually decrease your chances of getting her. Sounds weird ha? In my opinion, it will decrease your chances, because she actually doesn't want to know you :D. She just wants a one night stand. You get it? Daaa, why did I miss this? :D:D

If you don't show her that you are a tiger who is looking for PUSSY, sorry I mean prey :P, then...your chances are quite low. Be brave Biatch! Be BRAVE!!

This will be one of the things I will try to improve this week, because I've seen this happening so many times infront of my eyes and it is sooo powerful...

Forget opening, just be wild like an animal!! :)

Alright, so here I am going partying on Friday and trying to get better again.

Target was of course to improve and work on the problems.

One of the biggest moves I had to do was to talk to girls and really keep the conversation going as much as I can. Unfortunately I failed to do that, because my brain is programmed to talk to a girl then take a pause and then go and engage her again.

I did talk to three hot girls, but the results were not so good and probably no one to blame but myself (I guess).

First hot girl I talked to came by herself next to me and sat down.
When she was next to me, I noticed that every person passing by looks at her as if she is some kind of work of art or let's put in better words: something that everybody wants :D.

I said to myself, fuck it let's talk to her. My opening was:
Me: Gosh! Don't you feel like a toy and uncomfortable since everybody is coming by giving you that look?
Girl1: Yeaaah, how did you notice that?
Me: Well, I noticed that every person that passes by looks towards, that's why
Girl1: That's true, they really annoy me sometimes

Gues what I did next? As usual I paused for few minutes leaving her without any conversation AND....She left......DAMN!!

Now let's move to the next girl. Before I do that, I have to say that she was just FUCKING hot, nice big boobs, awesome ass, really tanned, nice lips and I just loved her hairstyle (very special). Let's start:
Me: Watsup with your hair?
Girl2: She just smiled
Me: Who did that for you? Which barber in town?
Girl2: I did it by myself with a smile
Me: No FUCKING WAY! You fucking serious?
Girl2: Yeah! Really I did it by myself at home
Me: I can't beleive that! Am sure you are copying someone. Did you google it :D
Girl2: Smiling again! Nooo, it was really me who did it
Me: Well I still don't beleive you, but I really like it! Looks lovely!
Girl2: Thaanks :)

Guess what? Stupid me...I stepped away and stopped the conversation. I didn't keep the conversation for as long as I should AND....didn't do anything after that although she was few meters away. She kept on looking but since my fucking brain is still programmed to do that stuff I acted as if I don't notice her, ignored her and left it like that...

I talked to another girl also, but whatever. End result for tonight:
0 ZERO
Although there were so many hot chics tonight.....gotta improve really....

Gotta be honest with you, I was pissed at my results..so fucking pissed!!

Since coming back to Finland, all my openings have been very successful.
I wasn't rejected so far not even once, which is really great.

Problem at the moment is how to get the girl till the end.

Let's talk about the things am really good at it or things that have been going well:
- Almost all the time, I get smiles from many good looking girls
- Opening a girl is quite easy for me, I think I've mastered this part

Problems:
- After opening the girl, am kind of lost not sure what to do next. This is probably because I open a girl and then I leave her. Am not keeping the conversation going. This maybe makes her think that hmmm maybe he is not interested in me.
- Usually after leaving them, the girls come back to me dancing very close to me.
- Not sure what to do here, should I continue my small talk or should I grab her and dance with her? Usually I do small talk, pause, small talk, pause etc...maybe I should change this?

Two weeks ago, I got a girl by not much talking to her and really dancing nice with her ;).
Stupid me however, I didn't continue by kissing her but rather left her showing her that am not needy, but that ruined the whole thing coz she left later.....

This week - Saturday:
- I talked to many girls and as usual opening went smoothly
- There this blond who I've talked and she was happy and smiling most of the time
- Dancing and coming close all the time
- I just wanted to try one thing out by being nice to her and say: May I dance with you? I know it never works, but just wanted a proof. Guess what? Never use it, it doesn't work :D:D

This Week - Sunday:
- There was enough hot chics, but didn't do anything, which was a complete failure.
- Not sure why I didn't do anything, but I think the reason could be the amount of people. Very few people were there and I took it in a negative way rather than making a move right away.

Alrighty, i'll be posting all my adventures in Helsinki from now on.
Here is where you will see the game happening. Target is to improve and learn from mistakes!

More to come soon!