Okay mates, as mentioned in my previous post, I went out alone on Sunday for the first time in my life.

I entered the club and didn't feel comfortable at all (first time). I went to order some drink (non alcoholic).
After ordering, I went for a walk around the club just to check what's going on and if there are any hot chics around.

After the walk, I decided to stay next to one of the bars where you can see the dance floor as well.
I was having a lot of eye contact from the girls although the place wasn't that full since it was Sunday. There was this fucking hot chic who was most probably half Finnish and half latino I would guess. Oh my! What a body! Every fucking guy was looking at her. She was looking at me so many times, but wasn't sure whether to make a move or not coz she was with a bunch of four girls. I didn't take the risk although she gave a lot of signs...next time baby next time :).

On my right hand side, there were two girls who were just sitting and chatting. I could see that both were running out of things to say. I wasn't sure if I should make a move or not, but I was like COME ON MAAAAAN, you gotta make a FUCKING move. Move your fucking ASS, you gotta socialize!!

It took me some time, but then I went ;). I opened the girl who was next to me asking her on why its empty today (as if I don't know :D). Conversation started...she was quite friendly and then I used the Canada thingy again haha :D. I was just talking absolutely Non SENSE like:
- In Canada we have big parties on Sunday, its never empty like this. We love partying on Sunday bla bla
- I asked if there are any good clubs around etc...

Anyways, after a while I got introduced to her friend a cute blondy whom I thought was a Finn but she was half swedish and half something else. This blondy kind of got the lead and the girl whom I talked with at the beginning felt left out and she was trying to get my attention back :D:D. Its funny how they get jealous easily.
I talked with them for about 20-30 minutes, which is quite good in my opinion. I wanted to end it right there so I asked them about their names before leaving them. The blondy had a funny name and I teased her by saying: your name sounds like a black girls name haha. She started laughing hard and hit me saying SCREW YOU :D:D.

I went for a walk around the club again and ordered water from the bar.  After 10 mins, I went back and they were still there, so I just said oooh you are still here?!! Then I went far away from them on the other side, so that they don't think am a stalker. They were looking every now and then, but I was just dancing and pretended that I didn't notice them looking at me.

After about 15 minutes YOU WON'T BELEIVE WHAT HAPPEND!!
The blond girl came directly to me asking: Did you come out alone?
To be honest with you guys, I was a bit shocked but thankfully I managed it. I told her yes, am alone. My colleagues are all engaged, married bla bla and I love to party so yes I came out alone.
She was like, why don't you join me and my friend. You can come and sit with us.....I was like aaaaaa, alright (still in shock :D). Apparently her friend to whom I talked to at the beginning has left already, so she introduce me to another friend of hers who was a good looking asian. Small and cute :).

I intorudced myself to the asian and started to talk a lot with her to make the blond one jealous ;). When I did that, the blond started to ask more questions. What do you do? Where are you originally from? bla bla bla

After some time, they said that they are going to the bathroom and that they will come back. I was like damnn, maybe I lost it and they will never come back. However, they really did come back and sat with me. I left a good impression it seems, so AWESOME they are back :).

All of a sudden, the asian chic asked me: Do you want to dance?
Me: I was like aaa yeah, if its a good song then why not ( Man, they shocked me again here :D:D)
Asian chic: Why don't you go and dance with her (she was pointing to the blond girl)
Me: I was thinking hmmmmm, is this a sign that the blond girl really likes me. She asked this asian chic to ask me for a dance with her (obviously she is shy which is normal). So then I told the blond, how about if we dance? She was like yeah, I don't mind so I took her to the dance floor.

She was really shy, so she asked her asian friend to come and join us. I could see that she is very interested but not so ready, so I took it easy with her.


There were just so many guys trying on these two girls maaaaaaan, you can't imagine. That was a good opportunity for me to show them the protector role. One guy came straight to the blond, so I grabbed her and moved her to the other hand and kept on dancing. She really liked my move and the Asian chic was like oooo nice one. I told the Asian one, if someone is annoying you just let me know ;). I'll send you the bill later haha :D:D.

Anyways, we moved from one side of the dance floor to the other one. When doing that, one guy out of no where came to the blond and told her to join their table. Their table was FULL of drinks with three men and the blond one said heii, am gonna join them to get some drinks and I'll be back haha :D. Very typical, girls will suck you up and then give you nothing. I told her to grab two more drinks, one for me and for the asian and she was laughing :D:D. I was dancing with the Asian chatting with her and joking about drinks. Unexpectedly, the Asian chic goes to the table giving them a very nice smile and asking: Can I have a drink? They said yeah sure.

She brought the fucking drink for me and said this is yours! I said, no thanks its okay, you can have it yourself. She said really this is for you, am driving. I had my back at the guys, but the Asian chic was saying that they are looking at me in a very angry way coz she stole the drink and gave it to me HAHAHA. I couldn't stop laughing :D:D.

To make the story short, they asked for my Facebook about 10 times! Both of them.
I ended up with the blondy and had a great night ;);)

I gave them my Facebook also and I have them as friends now.

Mates! I fucking FELT like a PLAYER that night!! I couldn't be happier and had to skip work on Monday :). It just went sooooo smoothly that night! HURRAAAY!!

Hello mates!

Last Sunday I went out alone for the first time in my life. I am someone who hates doing stuff alone, but this time I had to. All the people I knew didn't wanna go out coz they are working on Monday. Losers :).

On the other hand, I learnt from life and experience that if you want to grow you have do the things on your own. Your friends will always try to drag you back, because they can see that you are growing and are kind of jealous of that. I've been there many times and once you leave them behind and make a move, they will come back to you and ask heiiii, how did you do it man? Very typical :).

Anyways, back to going out alone adventure. There are goods and bads as usual.
The only bad side that I found was the fact that you are alone. You don't have anyone to talk to. If you don't feel comfortable then it is very visible.

However, I saw many positive things here. I noticed that when you are alone, girls somehow pay more attention to you. Not sure exactly why, but I think that they find it somehow attractive that a guy has the ball to go out alone and enjoy the night. It can be very unattractive if you are closed and not having fun, so avoid it. Also, just like us men when we see a girl alone, we usually try to go and talk to her coz she is alone. It is kind of easier, so I think girls think the same way here. THey are like ooooo we have a target there :D:D.

The most positive thing for me is the amount of pressure you have on yourself. I am someone who does his best when I have enough pressure on myself and gotta tell you that going out alone is definitely something that generates it. By that I mean the fact that you are standing there alone with no one to talk to, you keep on telling yourself COME ON MAAAAAN, you gotta do something. You are kind of forced to socialize and make a move.

When you are out with your friends, it is totally different. You find all kind of excuses not to make a move, but when you are alone you are ALONE maaaaaan. You gotta move your fucking balls coz NO BODY else will move them for you. Either do something or go fucking home. Simple.

That being said, I am definitely going to increase the amount of times am going out on my own. Like I said, I need pressure and that works for me so well. Moreover, I think this is one the most important things that a lot of trainers say: Work the room. Work the room. Work the room.

I couldn't really understand what they mean until I went out alone. You really gotta talk to everyone and socialize. Its not just about women, you have to go out there to meet new people and have fun. By meeting new people, you will definitely meet women as well.

I will tell you about my adventure in the next post.