Like I promised, I'll be sharing what kind of material I owned.
You will be quite surprised by the amount that I had and the amount of knowledge that went into my head. A lot of the knowledge was just a waste, so here we go:

1. Mystery - All videos + all books
2. Neil Strauss/Style - All videos + all books
3. Lance Mason/Pickup101 - Most videos + majority of the books
4. Ross Jeffries - Most videos
5. David DeAngelo - All videos + all books + majority of the books he recommended
6. Richard La Ruina/PUATraining - All videos + majority of the books
7. Sean Messenger/X-Pickup101 Coach - Audios
8. BadBoy - Almost all videos
9. NLP Books + NLP Videos
10. General Dating Books by many other authors
11. Other Dating videos by many other authors

That's just a basic idea of how much stuff I had and how much knowledge went into my head.
You see, my problem was that I was reading/watching/listening too much and that made me get stuck.

I was going out every weekend practising different kind of techniques taught by those guys, but I wasn't getting much result to be honest with you. I could see that guys who never read this stuff or got into it were getting better results by doing normal basic stuff.

Of course, they have some very valid points in their teachings that will help you, but a lot of it is actually useless and a lot of the claims they make are plain BULLSHIT. Am saying this, because I have been putting their techniques in the field for few years now, am not saying this just like that.

You want a basic example of a BULLSHIT that everyone of those guys use? Here is what they all say:
- By learning my/our technique you will get EVERY GIRL you want/wanted!! I say: BULLSHIT, that is IMPOSSIBLE :)

Like I said earlier, am STUCK now and because am STUCK I promised myself that I will delete all those things (which I did already) and try to find myself again.

At the moment, I am lost and I really need some time to get my balance back and be really ME.
This is the second promise that I did to myself:
- No Clubbing until I find my balance, find myself and be true/genuine to myself. I must become original.

Taking a break until you find yourself again is very important in my opinion, because then you will be very connected and right now as I said am LOST and STUCK.

Am thinking of travelling to somewhere outside Finland to an Island where the weather is nice and full beaches just to relax and try to get in touch with myself. I really need that.

I will let you know once am out of this situation and let you know once am back to Night life.

- Helsinki Player

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